The “Good” in the “Bad”!!!

The world changes, heading towards 2012, global warming, endless emotional rollercoaster and the doom and gloomed of tomorrow. Is this really true!!!
Why is it that many tend to concentrate on the bad side of things?

Are we really designed within our conditioned society to look at the bad in all things?

These sort of changes within societies and planetary has been happening since the beginning of time and will still continue. It is all part of the cycle of life on planet Earth. Many generations have had floods, Tsunami’s, meteors, plagues, destructions through wars. What about this moment you are in right NOW?

Do we as “Human Beings” really need that sort of negativity to bring out the best in us? YES or NO…

We do not have to wait for something to fall on our heads to do something we still have a choice.

What are the choices:
• The choice to have a choice
• Choices to become the real “YOU”
• Choices to move from any situation or circumstance
• Choices to be heard
• Choice to be strong
• Choice to help and receive help
• Choice of good relationships, partner, friends, family etc
• Choice to be rich, physically, financially, emotionally and spiritually
• Choice to change silently within
• Choices to just “BE”
• Choice to love and receive love
There are more points that can be added.

It is still up to “YOU” in any situation to change the bad to a good.
Is it ever bad anyway? Without it we may not have wanted to change to grow or become the best that we can be.

When I did a seminar in my late 20’s the facilitator asked some questions relating and circumstances that people had faced in their lives up to the day. There were 88 people in the class that went for 10 days. We all had to stand for the exercise and when the facilitator read out the list adversity, we would sit down if he mentions one we had not been through. He read out more than 20 points and people keep on sitting down I was left standing. I felt so embarrassed standing there alone also knowing that he was going to continue reading while every little biddy eye was on me… he just laughed. That day everyone came to thank me talk to me about how much of an inspiration I have been to them.
I learned that day how strong I was. I took it for granted that many people around me as I was growing up had the same or more adversity in their lives. So I never really though I was a survivor. I wanted change and I went about looking for others to help me with that change.

Can we overcome any adversity?
Would it not be fair to say that we all have had adversity in our lives at some point and overcome them with strength in our heart?
Has it not made us stronger to continue in our lives and with our loved ones?
Did that very bad adversity bring families, neighbours, communities together, sharing, caring and supporting each other within that very situation?


Can you change your circumstances?

Yes we all can, no matter where we are born into whether it is conditioning or environment.

We hear and see many things that are happening on our planet due to the technological insight provide us. In the past generation they didn’t have that update to the world.
Yes by all means many would say we want to know what is happening and we do not want to be in the dark.
To know about what is happening in our world is one thing; to get caught up in the web of it all is allowing ourselves to get affected by it.

What is it that you may want to change to take control of your life?
What is important to you?

Could it be:
• Revaluating your Values
• The people in your life
• The media you may watch
• The place you may need to leave or move to
• The relationships that may need some work
• That work you are in and the learning’s you may like to look at such as temperament, understanding, discernment
• That financial situation that may need your attention, refinancing, bankruptcy, consolidating, another job, moving house or suburb
• Assistance for support to talk, to evaluate your options

You can get assistance, you are not alone. There are many institutions available to you in your community, state, internet, ask others. It is possible at any time and circumstances.

Remember this “YOU” have a choice to whatever you want to happen in your life. Anything is possible.

Wishing you all the right choices for you now and always. There are no wrong choices just make one and expand on what you have made.


“When the choice is to be right or to be kind,
Always make the choice that brings peace.”
Dr. Wayne Dyer